You may have heard or read to stop comparing yourself to others. Sadly a lot of people still do. In this article, I wanted to help those who are ready for change.
There will always be someone better than you
Someone once told me this and it took me time to confess my insecurities and admit that everyone else is going to succeed faster than me. Someone I know is going to find a better job or travel somewhere exotic for a living.
Even if you're achieving great things someone else is going to be achieving something greater than you. No one can attain everything. There will always be someone accomplishing better things than you and that is okay!
We're just jealous people
We constantly want something that's out of reach. I always see people on social media with a new car, perfect body or a beautiful home. It's human nature that we feel the need to have it to ourselves as well.
In David Bonham-Carter book "how to overcome jealousy" he states the common features of jealousy.
"1. A tendency to compare yourself to someone else
2. A worry or belief that in some respect you lack something that someone else has or are inferior to them in some way.
3. Attaching a very high degree of importance to this sense of inadequacy so that you may get it completely out of proportion".
Order his book on "How to overcome jealousy" here
We're human, we all do it. Even if we don't mean to, we will always compare our lives to others. Admit it, we try to make our egos feel better by comparing ourselves to people like "I'm so glad I'm not in her situation" as if we have a done something good with ourselves.
In today's society, its so easy to get wrapped around that thought. We can easily go on social media and have a photo tossed in our faces wishing we could go on that same adventure. We see a split second of there lives and we assume they have there life together.
Do not spend time trying to be like something or someone else because you think it will make you happy because it wont.
A 14 hour flight from Toronto to Manila with a layover in Shanghai, this airlines was questionable. Is it worth your money> Would I recommend this flight? Read on and find out more.
Day 3 of the no bake recipes. This is a little spin to a cake pop. No bake cake batter truffles it only takes 45 min to make! Have a lovely time baking!
For the Crust
The fall season is here! I will be posting all of my no bake recipes every single day of this week to celebrate the season!. Let's start with something pumpkin.
This recipe is simple and quick to make., I'm not a big fan of pumpkin taste however this recipe layers the pumpkin taste with the cream cheese, pumpkin pudding and the final layer of whipped cream. I guarantee you'll want to make more.
1. Mix cream cheese, 2tbsp, half and half and sugar with wire whisk until smooth
2. Gently fold in 3 cups Cool Whip
3. Spread on bottom of pie crust
4. Mix 1 cup half and half with both packages of vanilla instant pudding
5. Beat with wire whisk until well blended 1-2 minutes
6. Let stand 3 minutes
7. Stir in pumpkin and spices and mix well.
8. Spread over cream cheese layer.
9. Top with 2 cups of Cool Whip Topping
10. Refrigerate at least 2 hours prior to serving.
For those of you who don't know, I am a Starbucks barista. I've encountered pretty weird recipes and I've also discovered new flavors. Here are some of my Starbucks orders.
Hello! After staying in an island called Bohol for one month, I was given the chance to experience what it would be like as a local. I grew up in this island for a short period of my life, most of which I do not remember. So I guess it was time to relive it!
In this post, I'll be showing you guys the entirety of my trip through pictures. If you'd like to know the hotspots of Bohol, I'll be posting an in depth article soon. Enjoy :)